IN MEMORIAM: “Mac” Thigpen ’83
The Rev. William McCord “Mac” Thigpen III, Class of 1983, whose ministry in Los Angeles from 1988 to 2002 included his appointment in 1991 as the bishop’s liaison to the LGBTQ+ community, a first-ever post within the diocese – died Sept. 20 at his home in San Miguel de Allende, Mexico. He was 67 and had been suffering the effects of amyotrophic lateral sclerosis (ALS, Lou Gehrig’s disease).
Survivors include his husband, John Lavier; three adult children – Amy Mielke, Mary Wolf, and William M. Thigpen IV – three grandchildren, their families, and many friends.
A memorial service is pending at St. Paul’s Episcopal Church in San Miguel de Allende where Thigpen assisted the rector, the Rev. Canon George F. Woodward III, a longtime colleague in the Diocese of Los Angeles. Another service will be held at a future date at St. Bartholomew’s, Atlanta, where Thigpen was rector from 2002 to 2016 and where his ashes will be interred in the parish’s memorial garden.
An accomplished painter, Thigpen produced sought-after landscapes, cityscapes and portraits, frequently posting photos of his work to his Facebook page. More about his painting is here.
“I paint because I love to paint,” he wrote on his website. “In this phase of my life, I am able to make art my full-time vocation. I am in a new place in my expression of my art – freer, expressive, alive, with a sense of longing.”
Prior to serving in Atlanta – where he was born on Aug. 16, 1955 – Thigpen was from 1990 to 2002 rector of Trinity Church, located on Melrose in East Hollywood. Early in his tenure there he was instrumental in guiding the on-site Trinity Learning Center which offered courses in computer skills and vocational training for students living with HIV/AIDS. The program was operated by Project New Hope, a ministry established through the Bishop’s Commission on AIDS in the Diocese of Los Angeles.
Recalling his appointment as bishop’s liaison to the LGBTQ+ community, Thigpen recently wrote: “Early in 1992, a few members of Integrity Southland led by Larkette Lein met with Bishop Fred Borsch to request that an official diocesan representative to the gay and lesbian community in Los Angeles be appointed. The request grew out of a desire to integrate the work of gay and lesbian ministry into the diocesan life of the Episcopal Church in Los Angeles. Integrity had been doing its own ministry to say ‘God Welcomes You’ and offer hope and healing to the gay and lesbian community but there was sense of limitation in its inability to have the authority of the diocese with the directive of the Bishop to organize diocesan ministry and local parish ministry as well to the gay and lesbian community in Los Angeles, to educate, encourage, and change hearts and minds within and [beyond] the church, and reach out to the gay and lesbian community with God’s good news of hope and healing.”
Concurrently, the Bishop’s Commission on Gay and Lesbian (later expanded to LGBTQ+) Ministry was formed within the diocese to facilitate education, advocacy, and pride events, expanding the diocese’s representation at the Christopher Street West parade and festival, a presence launched in West Hollywood in the early 1980s by Canon Randolph Kimmler.
Thigpen began serving in Los Angeles in 1988 as assistant rector at St. James’ in the City, subsequently also serving as chaplain at St. James’ School in 1990-91. Previously he served at Trinity Church, Tulsa, in the Diocese of Oklahoma, where he was ordained to the priesthood in 1983. Before his call to the priesthood and attendance at General, he had completed two bachelor’s degrees at Oral Roberts University in 1978.
In junior college, Thigpen, who had grown up in a self-described strict Southern Baptist home, began studying art and embarking on new ways to express creativity.
“Being creative…,” he wrote years later on his artist’s website, “involves all of us and how we live our lives, how we go about our busyness, our relationships, our family and friends, our world and our own well-being. Being creative is being life-givers, full of hope and promise, seeing possibilities where all seems chaotic or impossible, breathing life into that which seems lifeless, helping to make all things new. How will we use it?”
From the Episcopal Diocese of Los Angeles obituary 9/21/2022
Service update from Mac’s family:
Dear Family and Friends,
Please join us in the celebration of Mac/Dad/Grandpa’s life.
Burial Service with Rite II Eucharist followed Committal of ashes
October 15, 2022 at 10am, reception to follow
St. Bartholomew's Episcopal Church
1790 Lavista Rd, Atlanta, GA 30329, United States
Memorial service with Rite II Eucharist
November 4, 2022 at 11am, reception to follow
St. Paul’s Anglican Church
Calzada del Cardo 6, Zona Centro, Centro, 37700, San Miguel de Allende, GTO, Mexico
Please join either or both as you are able. Both services will have a live feed if you would like to join but cannot attend in person.